Some, but not all of us, are aware when something turns us on. We might find ourselves just slightly more tuned in, or note a change in our bodies. It might be sudden and shocking or slow and subtle. Whether you’re aware of it or not, how often do you spend time thinking about why something turns you on? What it is, specifically, that gets you hot? And when was the last time you shared those thoughts with a partner?

This is a great exercise for gay men and male couples. Men are certainly sexual creatures and visually oriented, but often men do not have a clear ideas as to what behind their attractions. This is a great exercise for men to so some self-discovery around their sexual arousal and then to share it with a partner.

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